this was aimed at the author. As a suggestion to speak to the people at the squat you are talking about (I have no idea what this is about). But I see it a lot that people throw stuff online without actually talking to each other. If you know about something that others do not know about or if you are mad at people for mishandling a situation, maybe take steps to deal with it and speak to each other together? reach out to those you are speaking about and talk with them instead of about them anonymously online. More often than not people either do not know what is going on or are already dealing with it, and a lack of communication with each other makes this worse. Maybe the people you are talking about have also been affected by the abuser's behaviour. What did you or the group making accusations do at the time to deal with the situation? These things are messy and complicated and we should try not to blame each other but instead blame those that are doing the abuse.
this was aimed at the author.
this was aimed at the author. As a suggestion to speak to the people at the squat you are talking about (I have no idea what this is about). But I see it a lot that people throw stuff online without actually talking to each other. If you know about something that others do not know about or if you are mad at people for mishandling a situation, maybe take steps to deal with it and speak to each other together? reach out to those you are speaking about and talk with them instead of about them anonymously online. More often than not people either do not know what is going on or are already dealing with it, and a lack of communication with each other makes this worse. Maybe the people you are talking about have also been affected by the abuser's behaviour. What did you or the group making accusations do at the time to deal with the situation? These things are messy and complicated and we should try not to blame each other but instead blame those that are doing the abuse.